People always come into ur life for a reason, a season, and a lifetime. When u figure out which it is, u know exactly what to do.
When someone is in your life for a reason, it is usually to meet a need u have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist u thru a difficulty, or to provide u with guidance and support, to aid u physically, emotionally, or even spiritually. They may seem like a Godsend to u, and are here w/ a reason, u needs them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die, sometimes they just walk away. Sometimes they act up out and force u to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desires fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer u sent up has been answered and it’s time to move on…
When people come into your life for a season, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring u an experience of peace or make u laugh. They may teach u something u have never done. They usually give u an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season. And like the spring turns to summer and fall, the season eventually ends.
LIFETIME relationship teaches u a lifetime of lessons, those things u must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person(anyway!) and put what u have learned to use in all other relationship and as in your life., it is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
“FRIENDSHIP is the hardest thing in the world to explain. It is not something we learn in school. But if u haven’t learned the meaning of friendship, u really haven’t learned anything.”—Muhammad Ali–
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